The Living Amend Design
Apology that is not paired with changed behavior is performance, not amend. Design the changed pattern — in concrete behavior, not in feeling.
This worksheet is private. It is never collected, graded, or shared. The Reflection Pass is available at all times. Your teacher will not read the paper copy without your invitation.
A specific situation in which my action — or inaction — caused real harm to someone else (or to myself). Be specific. When it happened; to whom.
What an actual changed pattern would look like — in concrete behavior, not in feeling.
The observable evidence.
Accountability is optional, not required.
If the harm was self-directed: what specific changed pattern would constitute the amend?