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Architecture ofGrace

Built by a special education teacher, for the students the usual lesson leaves out.

Private by design: no accounts, no tracking.

Academics with pictures first. A shared language for mistakes and repair. Free, on this device.
Grace Over Performance

How do we learn to live with ourselves—
and one another—when none of us gets it right?

I’m with
Educator DashboardYour classes and tools, all in one place. Conversation StartersOne question a week for the table. The Standards CrosswalkHow it lines up. For the committee. Professional DevelopmentFor the grown-ups first: staff wellness, adult SEL, and training. Privacy & your dataNo account, no ads, no trackers. See what is kept and where. ContactQuestions, ideas or support. Write to me. Quiet SpaceA calm place to breathe and reset.

Built by a practicing special educator — private by design: no accounts, no tracking.

Where it began

Before there was a framework, there was a table full of these.

For over a decade, my children have handed me cards. I kept every one. Laid out together, they are more than keepsakes. They are a record of children learning, year by year, to put their inner lives into words: a scribbled heart becomes a sentence; a sentence becomes a paragraph about gratitude, and grace, and growing up.

A table covered with handmade cards from my children, collected over more than a decade — birthdays, Father’s Day, Christmas, and just-because notes.
A Father’s Day card from one of my children, now older — a full paragraph about butting heads, a special relationship, and missing each other next year. The scribbled heart became a letter about grace and growing up.
More than a decade apart in spirit: the table of cards, and the year a scribble grew into a letter about grace.

I did not build the Architecture of Grace from a theory. I built it from this table — from the slow, ordinary miracle of watching a child be witnessed, and write their way toward themselves.

Shared with my children’s blessing.

See what it became →

Start Here

New to all this? Here’s what it is, in plain words — and where to begin.


Architecture of Grace is a K–12 curriculum built on four ideas — identity, self-compassion, forgiveness, and grace — with a private five-minute self-reflection as its front door, calming tools for the hard moments, practice pages for math, science, social studies and grammar, and a home side for families. It looks a little different depending on who you are, so pick the door that fits.

Private · no login
For Students & first-timers

See how you’re really doing

A private, five-minute self-reflection — just for you. No grade, no right answers. See how you’re really doing, get one small thing that helps, and a quiet space whenever you need it.

Start the Self-Reflection →
Leadership
For Administrators

See the whole picture, safely

You get aggregated, class- and school-level trends for MTSS — never individual scores. Privacy lives in the link, and there’s no data harvesting. It’s universal, trauma-informed, and built by a practicing special educator.

Open the district view →
Staff view
For Educators

Know your students sooner

One honest answer from a student points you straight to the right lesson, story, or conversation — and the dashboard reminds you to tend to yourself first. No student logins, no grading, no surveillance. Just a clearer, kinder read on your class. Special educators: the Student Check-ins door holds goals, data points, meeting briefs, and the student’s own page.

Open the Educator Dashboard →
For families
For Parents & Caregivers

Help your child feel understood

It’s a 5-minute, private self-reflection that helps your child reflect on how they’re really doing — not a test, not a grade. They answer honestly, and it offers gentle conversation starters you can use together. Nothing is shared without you.

Go to Family →
Across every tier
For Specialists & Support Staff

Start where you already work

Counselors, psychologists, social workers, SLPs, OTs, PTs, paraprofessionals, and behavior staff. Run the self-reflection with the students on your caseload, see what it turns up across tiers, and keep your notes on your own device.

Open the Specialist workspace →
Consent-first · private
For Outside & Community Providers

Bring it into your practice

Private practice, outside OT/PT/SLP, and community clinics partnering with a family or school. A consent-first, on-device workspace — track sessions and screeners, then hand off only what you choose.

Open the Specialist workspace →
Universal core · optional
For Faith-Based & Ministry

Use it in your community

Churches, ministries, faith-based schools, and youth groups. The tool stays fully universal by default; an optional Faith Companion adds values language you turn on — and off — right on your device.

Open the Faith Companion →

Quick-Starts by role

Pick the role that fits and open its five-minute Quick-Start (PDF).

Still curious about the “why”? The Framework page explains the four pillars and the thinking behind all of this, and the Grace Ecosystem holds the ready-to-use resources for home, school, and adult life.

Take a private 60-second read on your own tank, right here.

A 60-second read

How full is your tank?

Burnout’s clearest signal is energy, not attitude. Four quick reads on your tank — private, instant, and saved nowhere. This isn’t a clinical burnout score; it’s a quick mirror. If it rings true, the full self-reflection goes deeper.

Taking it as
By the end of most days, I feel used up — like there’s little left to give.
Rarely / never Sometimes Often Almost always
I wake up already tired at the thought of the day ahead.
Rarely / never Sometimes Often Almost always
Even when I rest, I don’t really feel refilled.
Rarely / never Sometimes Often Almost always
Lately I feel like I’m just getting through the day without really noticing it — like my mind is somewhere else.
Rarely / never Sometimes Often Almost always

Something hard happening right now? Get one practical thing to do this minute.

For teachers

What To Say Instead

Five small changes in how you speak that help a student feel understood, not managed. The goal is connection, not obedience.

Student is overwhelmed

Instead of“Calm down.”

Try“Tell me what feels hardest right now.”

Student is frustrated

Instead of“You’re fine.”

Try“Something feels off. Tell me about it.”

Student is dysregulated

Instead of“Go sit down.”

Try“Take a reset and come back when you’re ready.”

Student made a mistake

Instead of“You know better.”

Try“What happened, and what would help make it right?”

Student shuts down

Instead of“Use your words.”

Try“We can start small. What’s one thing I should know?”

An in-the-moment reset

What’s happening right now?

Something just got hard? This isn’t about your week — it’s about right now. Four quick taps, and you’ll get one practical thing to do this minute. Private, instant, saved nowhere.

Private · not tracked · nothing you tap is saved.
Taking it as
Right now, my body feels…
Revved / tight Pretty settled Heavy / numb
The voice in my head right now is…
Quiet / kind Nagging Loud Won’t stop — railing me
My thinking right now is…
Clear Scattered Stuck on a loop Foggy / blank
And right now it feels…
Pretty small Like a wave Big Taking over
The Self-Reflection · the full reflection

Who’s checking in?

This is a moment to be understood, not measured. The same four ideas — identity, self-compassion, forgiveness, and grace — the same care, just worded for who’s answering. Choose one to begin.

Self-Reflection

How are you doing, really?

Take a few quiet minutes for yourself. There are no wrong answers. If you’re doing this through school, your teacher will see your answers to understand and help you, never to grade you.

4 to 10 minutes · no wrong answers · private unless your school connects it

Before you begin. There are no right or wrong answers — just pick what feels most true for you lately, and go with your first instinct.

If a question brings up something you’d like to talk about, you can reach out to a teacher, counselor, parent, or guardian any time.

Your answers stay on this device unless your school turns on sync.Privacy & your data →

Some of these questions were shaped with the help of children — so the words would sound a little more like yours, and a little less like ours.

About you

Choose how you want to take it

The same 18 questions either way. Pick the quick version, or a longer one with short written reflections.
For adults: how the two versions are scored
  • Score 0–54, flags who may need support
  • Comparable across seasons of life
  • Granular frequency (Never → Constantly)
  • Intensity rating on 6 highest-signal items
  • Score 0–90 with rich Home View report
A self-reflection for grown-ups

How are you doing, really?

A few quiet minutes, just for you. This is a self-reflection, not a test — and not a diagnosis. There are no wrong answers. It’s a way to notice how you’ve been, and a flag for a conversation if something needs one.

If you’re carrying something heavy right now, you don’t have to carry it alone. In the U.S. you can call or text 988 (the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), any time, day or night. Reaching out is a strong thing to do.

Before you begin. Just pick what feels most true for you lately, and go with your first instinct.

Your responses aren’t anonymous — they go to the person or team who shared this with you, so someone can follow up with care. If something here brings up a lot, please reach out to someone you trust.

See exactly how your answers are handled and where they go.Privacy & your data →

About you

Choose how you want to take it

Same 18 questions either way — a quick version, or a more thorough one with a few short written reflections.
For workplaces & teams

You can’t co-regulate from an empty cup.

Every helping role runs on the same quiet machinery: a teacher steadying a child who’s come undone, a nurse calming a frightened patient, a manager holding a team through a brutal quarter. None of it works when the person doing the steadying is running on fumes. You cannot help someone else find their footing while you’re losing your own — and this is the part most workplace-wellness programs skip entirely: tending to the helper first.

Just checking in on yourself?
Take the private adult self-reflection — just for you, not your team.
Personal self-reflection →

Regulation is contagious. So is depletion. We start with you.

Voluntary adult self-reflections available for staff wellness — no evaluation or surveillance.

Notice first
A few honest minutes to see how you’ve actually been — not how you’ve been performing.
Steady yourself
The same skill you give everyone else, turned inward: catching the wave before it breaks.
Then show up
A steadier you is the most powerful thing you bring to the people who depend on you.
Who this is for

Anyone whose job is holding others

The work is whole-person, not job-specific — because regulation doesn’t clock out. If people lean on you, this is for you.

Educators & school staff
Teachers, aides, counselors — the original audience for this idea.
Nurses & care workers
Clinicians, aides, and caregivers who absorb a lot and rarely get tended to.
Leaders & managers
Whoever sets the emotional weather for a team feels every storm first.
Parents & caregivers
The hardest, least-resourced helping role of them all.
First responders
Built for the moments after the moment — when the adrenaline drains out.
Helpers of every kind
Social workers, chaplains, coaches — anyone people turn to.
What it is

The same self-reflection — voiced for the adult in the room

Eighteen honest items across three areas: steadying yourself, how you speak to yourself, and showing up for the people around you. Take it quick (~4 minutes) or thorough (~10 minutes). It rests on the four ideas the whole framework is built on.

identity self-compassion forgiveness grace
The promise that makes it work

This is a mirror, not a report.

Honesty only works when it’s safe — so we made it safe. There is no version of this where your manager, HR, or anyone else sees what you said. It’s yours.

  • Your answers never leave this device — nothing is transmitted, anywhere.
  • No login, no account, no email required to begin.
  • No manager and no HR dashboard ever sees a single response.
  • Take it as often as you like — it’s a self-reflection, not an exam.
Take a few quiet minutes.

Pick what feels most true for you lately, and go with your first instinct. When you finish, you get a private report and a few gentle conversation starters — for you alone.

Choose how you want to take it

If you’re carrying something heavy right now, you don’t have to carry it alone. In the U.S. you can call or text 988 (the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), any time, day or night. Reaching out is a strong thing to do.

Bringing this to your people

Care for the team, without surveilling it

Organizations don’t buy access to anyone’s answers — those stay private, always. What you bring your people is the program and the practice: a shared language for steadying yourself so you can show up for the people you serve. On day one, leadership sees participation, never scores. Real outcome data — anonymized and consent-based — can come later.

Talk to us about your team →
Question 1 of 18
Reflection 1 of 3

This is private to you. It is saved with your results but only shown to a trusted adult who can help. You can skip it.
✓

Thank you.

Your answers have been saved. A trusted adult will review them to make sure you have the support you need.

A closing reflection · in your own words

Name something true about yourself.

Before you go, tap one or two positive words that describe you today.

Take it with you

—

Carry that word with you today.

Your results · your personal report

How you’re doing

Here’s everything you just shared — and where each piece lives in the books. This is a mirror, not a verdict — a way to be understood, not measured.

This is your personal report. If you checked in on a class computer or through a link your teacher shared, your teacher can see it too — to understand and support you, never to grade you.

View as
What now?

Your path from here

A self-reflection is a beginning, not an ending. Here’s where to go next.

  1. Check in
  2. See resultsYou’re here
  3. Explore resources
  4. Apply it
  5. Keep growing

Explore your resources

See the lessons, charts, and novel chapters that match what you just shared.

Put the framework to work

The full K–12 curriculum and the six-book novel series bring this into a classroom or home.

Keep growing

Check in again over time, or use Family Mode to track it together.

A quick anchor

What helps me

Tap what helps you feel steady. We’ll keep it on this device and bring it back next time you check in.

Grace, not performance

A score is a flag for a conversation, never a diagnosis — never a verdict on who you are. It’s a starting point for being understood. Because growth begins with grace, not performance.

Family · A shared language for home

Bring the language home.

The same ideas your child learns at school can be part of home life: at dinner, in the car, after a hard day, or while making up after a fight. Start with one small conversation.

🔒 Private by design — your family’s reflections stay on this device unless you intentionally choose to share something.

If your child’s school uses Architecture of Grace, your child may do a short check-in or self-reflection there. It’s a private way to say how they’re doing, never a test or a grade. Their answers stay with the school. What your family does here stays here. The words are the same in both places, so hard moments at home and at school can be talked about the same way.

Family Mode · private to this device

Your family’s home base

Add each family member once. You’ll get conversation starters for their age, a private repair journal and gentle routines. Everything stays on this device for you to look back on.

Guide & Library

Everything behind the framework

Everything you would want to read before you teach it — and the index that turns a single answer into the exact lesson that answers it.

The honest frame. The self-reflection is built from a coherent framework, which makes it internally sound — but it has not yet been through external reliability and validity testing. For a pilot, that is appropriate and disclosed. Until then, every score is a flag, not a diagnosis — and the curriculum, not the number, is the intervention.

PDF Read a real lesson A complete lesson from Book 3, grades 6–8. No sign-up.
The closed loop

How the full library works

One result becomes one targeted next step — and then a sustained one. This is the loop that ties measuring, flagging, and teaching into a single system.

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Identify the need

A self-reflection surfaces a low domain — say, Self-Compassion & Growth Mindset — for one student or a whole group.

2
Targeted flag

The result raises a flag on the counselor follow-up view — who to sit with, and where to focus — without ever issuing a diagnosis.

3
Sustain growth

The Resource Index maps that flag straight to the book, chapter, lesson, and anchor chart that teach the skill — so the score leads to instruction.

Why this exists

People are often measured before they are understood. Architecture of Grace offers another way — and everything that follows serves one belief: that growth begins with grace, not performance.

How it works

How a self-reflection becomes support

Every piece hands off to the next — a self-reflection becomes a conversation, and a conversation becomes the right support.

Student Self-Reflection A private self-report
Reflection Their own words, in Thorough
Family View Caregivers see it at home
Teacher Insights Class & school dashboard
Targeted Supports Each flag → the right lesson
Literature Connections The same idea, met as story

That’s the path in a school. On their own, an adult takes the very same self-reflection privately — the personal report and conversation starters are theirs alone. This is for every age, not only the classroom.

For staff & leadership

Professional Development

The adult-facing strand that already runs through every book’s table of contents — gathered here in one place. Each thread supports the grown-ups first, so the framework holds for the students they carry.

Staff Wellness

Protect the people who hold everyone else. A private adult self-reflection, a 60-second burnout read, and practices a team can run without adding another meeting.

Trauma-Informed Reflection

Recognize stress responses in yourself and your students, and respond from regulation rather than reaction — the Window of Tolerance, applied to the adults first.

Adult SEL

The same four pillars — identity, self-compassion, forgiveness, and grace — translated for grown-ups, so staff practice the skills before they ever teach them.

Building a Culture of Grace

Move grace from a poster to a practice: repair routines, charitable reading, and the difficult-vs-unsafe line that keep a staff culture healthy under pressure.

Implementation Training

Onboarding for the whole system — the self-reflection, the dashboard, family and adult modes — with a mid-year session tied to your curriculum calendar.

New · Preview

Wellbeing tracks — for the adults, by role

The five threads above prepare staff to deliver the work. These two turn it toward the adult as a person — one for the staff who carry it, one for the leaders who set the culture around it. Assembled from material already in Books 1–5.

For staff who deliver the work

The Sustainable Educator

A staff-wellness session built from the curriculum’s own interior work — turned toward the teacher.

The Internal Critic and the Compassionate Witness, the Friend Test, the line between depletion and weakness — the same constructs your students learn, redirected toward the people teaching them. Trauma-informed, research-grounded, universal.

In every lesson, the educator holds the room. Here, for one session, the educator is the one who is held.
The depletion pattern is not laziness and not weakness — it is noble commitments that, together, cost more than they replace.
  1. 1
    The question, asked of youThe last mistake you made at work — is the feeling about what you did, or about who you are? The shame-and-guilt distinction, run on the adult first.
  2. 2
    The Critic and the Witness — yoursThe Friend Test, turned inward. The empathy you already extend to others, redirected toward yourself.
  3. 3
    The Sustainable Educator — from Book 5 · The Sustainable SoulDepletion patterns, portable self-care across body / mind / spirit, and one honest test: can I run on this for twenty years? The heart of the module.
  4. 4
    Reflection as personal practice — from §5.2 Block 5 · §5.3The reflection box was always your drain. Here it’s the work — private, never collected, modeled first by the facilitator with a real response.
  5. 5
    Your support webYou taught your students that asking for support is wisdom, not weakness. Map your own. Name one thing you’ve been carrying that you haven’t said aloud.

Who facilitates

An external facilitator, or a non-evaluating internal role — counselor or coach.

Never the person who evaluates the room.

If something surfaces

Adult referral path: EAP, HR, crisis lines — the grown-up version of the student counselor route.

Participation is voluntary by design.

For school leaders & administrators

The Sustainable Leader

The same interior work, for the person who sets the culture everyone else lives inside.

A principal sets the staff culture mostly without meaning to, evaluates the people in the room, and depletes with no one above holding them. This module names that bind — and gives a leader the moves that actually build a culture of grace, including for themselves.

You’re asked to build a culture of grace for everyone. The hardest person to extend it to is yourself — and the staff is watching whether you do.
Staff wellness run by the person who evaluates the room becomes performance. A leader’s job is not to run it — it’s to protect the conditions for it.
  1. 1
    The culture you set without meaning to — from Book 4 · grace vs. performance culturePsychological safety (Edmondson), and the leadership case with the research behind it: staff wellbeing predicts student outcomes.
  2. 2
    The evaluator problem, namedWhy you can’t be the one running staff wellness — and what your role is instead: hand facilitation to a non-evaluating role, keep it voluntary, model your own reflection without surveilling anyone else’s.
  3. 3
    The difficult-vs-unsafe line, for adults — from Building a Culture of GraceWhen a struggling staff member is a support question, and when it has become an HR or safety one. Knowing the difference protects everyone.
  4. 4
    Repair as routineMoving grace from a poster to a practice your staff can see you use — charitable reading, and visible repair on the days you get it wrong.
  5. 5
    Who holds the holderThe depletion pattern applies to you too. Your own peer or coach support, and the non-negotiables you will not trade away under pressure.

Your role

Protect the conditions for the work. Do not facilitate it yourself.

Model the practice; never police it.

Your own support

A peer or coach outside your reporting line, plus EAP.

This is not optional for you either.

Roughly 70% of both modules is already written and vetted inside Books 1–5. These assemble it and turn the why around — they don’t reinvent it.
Print-ready · for staff & leadership

Take it into the staff room

The adult-facing companions, ready to read on screen or printed to Letter for the lounge. The same four pillars the students learn — identity, self-compassion, forgiveness, and grace — turned toward the grown-ups who carry the work.

For educators & teams

Grace for Educators

Professional growth that protects the people who do the work: burnout prevention, repair, staff trust, and leadership through grace.

For leaders & adult teams

Grace for Adult Life

The framework beyond the classroom — for teams, leaders, caregivers, and communities, and for the person who sets the culture everyone else lives inside.

The master map of the framework

Construct-to-Resource Index

This is not a search page — it is the map of how everything connects. Every assessment item is mapped to its construct, its lesson, its anchor chart, its worksheet and the story chapter that carries it — and the lesson and the chapter open straight from the card. Start with a challenge, a skill, or a self-reflection result, and follow it through the Architecture of Grace framework.

See how one answer becomes growth →

When a self-reflection flags a low domain or a specific item, find the matching construct below. Each one names the exact lesson, anchor chart, and activity in every grade band — the School Curriculum lesson opens directly, and the Home Edition covers that same lesson for families — and, under In the novels, the specific book and chapter where that same idea appears as story. (References are by chapter, which stay accurate across print and digital formats, rather than by page.) Both the Quick and Thorough self-reflections measure the same items, so a result from either mode maps back to these same lessons, sections, and chapters.

Found the construct you were looking for?

Voices

Teachers, families, adults, students, and more — share a few words about your experience. Posts appear on the wall below for everyone to read.

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Please don’t include emails, phone numbers, links, or last names — posts with contact details are blocked automatically to keep the wall safe.

Pilot Program

Run a pilot with confidence

Everything a school, family, or team needs to try Architecture of Grace — a five-minute Quick-Start for each role, and a short feedback form you can fill out right here or print. No sign-up, no code. Answers stay on the device by default; your feedback is the only thing you choose to send.

1

Pick your role

Teacher, specialist, parent, child, adult, or leader — choose the card that fits you.

2

Open the Quick-Start

Preview it here or download the PDF. About five minutes to your first self-reflection.

3

Run the self-reflection

With a class, a child, a team, or just yourself. Nothing is sent anywhere.

4

Share your read

Fill out the feedback form online or on paper. What confused someone or broke is gold.

Highlights

What you can do

Home + School on one chart
See a child’s school and home growth overlaid in One student over time ▸ Both.
Link as the same child
Pair a school code with a home member once; it stays on your device.
"What helps me"
Students save the strategies that calm them, right on the results screen.
Your own Google Sheet
Connect your own Sheet with a clear Connected confirmation. Privacy-first.
Pilot resources
Everything to plan, run, and measure your pilot.
Plan & measure
Pilot feedback — about 2 minutes, emailed straight to us
About the online forms: nothing you type is stored on this site or sent to any server. When you press Send feedback, your own email app opens with the answers filled in, addressed to the project — you stay in control of what goes. Prefer paper? Every form is also a printable PDF.

Ready to pilot Architecture of Grace?

Tell us a little about your school, district, or family and we’ll help you set up a pilot — including licensing, privacy paperwork, and a walkthrough if you’d like one.

Evidence, honestly

What we’re learning

We’d rather be honest than oversell. Here’s exactly where the evidence stands today.

Real today

The framework, the 81-row standards crosswalk, the Illinois SEL Standards alignment, and WCAG 2.1 AA-designed accessibility are built and working today.

In progress

Broader efficacy validation is underway. Each pilot tracks growth across three windows a year, on three domains of wellbeing.

In the open

With your permission, we collect de-identified outcomes and share what we find — building the evidence base transparently.

Pilot with clear eyes. The risk is low — and the honesty is the point.

What a pilot looks like

One semester. Low lift. Clear data.

Here’s what a school or district actually does — and what it gets back.

Time

One semester, one grade or building. Lessons run about 30–45 minutes, weekly. The check-in takes about five minutes, three times a year.

What teachers do

Name a site lead, then deliver the Tier 1 lessons as written. A low check-in domain points straight to the matching lesson — anchor charts and worksheets are included.

What you get back

Pre/post growth on three domains, MTSS tiers, and short feedback. Data is local by default, with optional sync to your own Google Sheet. FERPA- and PPRA-aware.

A pilot costs nothing. Request one below: one grade or building, one semester.

Before you ask

Questions schools and families ask

Is student data safe?

Privacy is the architecture, not an add-on. Private by default, connected when your school chooses. Unless a school hands out a connected classroom link, a student’s responses stay on the device they were taken on; nothing is stored on our servers. When a school does connect one, results go into a Google Sheet the school owns and controls. It’s SDPC-modeled, FERPA- and COPPA-aware, and pseudonymous by design — students appear as codes the school assigns, and the code-to-name mapping stays with the school. We never hold it.

Is it accessible and bilingual?

Designed to be, and tested against WCAG 2.1 AA — picture answers, high-contrast and dyslexia-friendly options, printable alternatives, and no time limits, in English and Spanish throughout. Text-to-speech is not built in yet. The accessibility statement says what has been tested and what has not.

How much time does this ask of a teacher?

About five minutes for the check-in, three times a year — no grading, no student logins, no prep beyond opening the link. The Tier 1 lessons run 30–45 minutes weekly and are delivered as written, with anchor charts and worksheets included. When a check-in flags a low domain, it points straight to the matching lesson — nothing to hunt for.

What will my child actually see?

Plain-language questions about how they’re really doing — with picture answers and read-aloud if that helps. No grade, no right answers, no timer. At the end they see gentle results and one small strategy that helps, and you get conversation starters to use together. Nothing leaves the device unless you choose to share it.

What does a pilot cost?

Nothing. A pilot costs a school nothing — one grade or building, one semester, walkthrough and school-owned Google Sheet included. Families and individuals can use the Self-Reflection and Quiet Space anytime. The Store sells the novels, home editions, and full curriculum; none of them are required to pilot.

What paperwork will our district need?

It’s already prepared: a plain-language Data Privacy Statement, a ready-to-sign Data Privacy Agreement template, and an IT deployment guide for your technology team. Most districts need nothing else to approve a pilot.

Do students or teachers need accounts or an app?

No. It runs in the browser on any device a school already has — Chromebooks, tablets, phones — no accounts, no installs, no student logins. It even works offline after the first visit.

Start a pilot

Request a pilot

One grade or building, one semester — at no cost. We’ll set up your school-owned Google Sheet and walk your team through it. No obligation.

1
Within a day

We reply and schedule a 20-minute walkthrough at a time that works for you.

2
Week one

We set up your school-owned Google Sheet and hand your team the Quick-Starts for each role.

3
You run it

Five-minute check-ins and the Tier 1 lessons as written. We stay one reply away.

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Each window

You see growth on three domains and MTSS tiers — and you keep every byte of the data.

Want to see it before you ask? Open the district view with sample data →

One semester · no obligation. We reply within a day.

A prefilled email — send it to your principal, SEL director, or team.

The Store

Shop the novels, curriculum, anchor charts, worksheets & card decks — for home or school.

We’re offering these previews and tools freely because we believe the framework and the stories stand on their own. If they help, you’ll know exactly where the deeper resources fit.
What’s open — and what the full bundles unlock
Always open, no sign-up
  • The full Self-Reflection, Quiet Space, and every calm-down tool
  • The first complete lesson of every book
  • The entire 6–8 band, whole — curriculum, the complete Room 36 novel, workbook & anchor charts
  • Sample anchor charts, scenario cards & worksheets
  • The Resource Index that maps a result to the exact lesson
The full bundles add
  • Every lesson, K–adult — School Curriculum + matching Home Editions
  • The complete novel sets — the other four Rooms and The Dwelling, plus print editions of all six
  • Full anchor-chart, scenario-card & worksheet packs
  • Facilitator guides and the always-updated crosswalk & indices
For schools & districts
License the full program

Bring the whole K–12 ecosystem to your school or district under a site or district license — typically billed by purchase order and priced per building or per student. We’ll send a quote and help you set it up.

Request a pilot or district licensing discussion →
For families
Buy books & materials for home

Previews are always open in the Library — read before you buy. When you’re ready, take it home:

  • The companion novel · Book One
    The story the whole framework grows from. Paperback or eBook.
    $14.99 Buy
  • Home edition · charts & cards
    Print-at-home anchor charts and scenario cards for the kitchen table.
    $9.99 Buy
  • Family bundle · all five booksBest value
    Every novel, chart, and card deck for home, in one pack.
    $49 Buy

Home-schooling, or want a set for several kids? Ask us →

Browse everything

Previews download instantly. Everything else is part of the full program — license it for a school, or buy individual pieces for home. Open a category to explore.

Calm & Regulation Tools

What does your body need right now?

Different moments need different kinds of support. Explore ways to pause, move, breathe, ground, connect, or simply be.

I need to…
Things that help me

Optional, and only saved on this device — so next time can start where it helped.

Sensory Toolkit

Different bodies respond to different kinds of input. Explore what feels supportive for you.

Calming Corner Station

Turn any tablet or laptop into a self-serve calm-down spot students can use on their own.

How to set this up as a calming-corner station
  1. Open this page on a dedicated tablet or laptop in the corner.
  2. Tap Generate QR code above and print it.
  3. Add a small sign: “Feeling overwhelmed? Scan or tap a tool.”
  4. Keep it voluntary and judgment-free — a reset, never a consequence.

Grace Lens

The deeper idea beneath each Circle Time activity — a shared language of grace, reflection, repair, and belonging.

Reset Together

“Our goal is not perfect focus. Our goal is arriving together.”

Feelings Go-Round

“Every feeling belongs. No feeling earns more value than another.”

Coach the Critic

“We speak to ourselves the way we would speak to a friend.”

Repair Circle

“Repair is not punishment. Repair is how trust grows.”

Strengths Circle

“We notice strengths so people can see themselves more clearly.”

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Co-Regulation

Regulate yourself first — your calm is the intervention

Start here
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Beyond “Fine”

Everyday questions that get past “how was your day?”

Open
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Body Check

Tell us how your body feels — get the right tool

Check in
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When a Student…

For staff: what’s happening & what to say — with the tool to reach for

Open
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Find the Function

What is the behavior getting or avoiding? Match the support

Open
PECS Cards
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PECS Cards

Build a communication sequence

Open
Breathe
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4-7-8 Breathing

Animated breath guide

Start
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Paced Breathing

Box 4·4·4·4 or 4·7·8 vagal

Start
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Rainbow Breathing

Breathe in every color!

Start
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Take 5

Trace your hand, breath by breath

Start
Move & Play
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Movement Break

Timed shake-out sequence

Start
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Animal Yoga

Fun animal poses

Play
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Tap Pad

Tap a rhythm to steady your heart

Open
Ground & Soothe
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5-4-3-2-1 Grounding

Step-through sensory anchor

Start
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Safe Place

Guided visualization

Begin
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Body Scan / PMR

Progressive muscle release

Start
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Bilateral Tapping

Butterfly hug guide

Guide
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Cold Water Reset

Vagus nerve reset guide

Guide
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Calm Down Jar

Shake & watch it settle

Shake
Express
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Harsh → Kind

Flip the inner critic into a kind coach

Open
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Think It → Say It

Turn a blunt thought into kinder words

Open
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Talk It Out

Endless discussion prompts for a whole class — grades 6–8

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Anchor Charts

All four units’ boards — built live with the class, on the projector

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Conversation Starters

Age-right prompts, grouped by domain

Open
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Emotion Wheel

Name it to tame it

Open
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Feelings Wheel

Tap a feeling, hear it named

Spin
Printables
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Four Pillars at Home

One-page parent printable (PDF)

Download
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Four Pillars in the Classroom

One-page teacher printable (PDF)

Download
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Calming Corner Guide

One-page setup guide for specialists & teachers (PDF)

Download
PICKED FOR YOU

Your calm & regulation tools

Tap a tool to begin. Each one takes about a minute. There’s no wrong one — pick what feels right.

If things feel too big, these can help for now — and please tell a grown-up you trust. You don’t have to handle it alone. 💛